Well, tonight I needed to use up some leftover pimento cheese - plus we had leftover spaghetti&meatballs with which bread would go nicely. So how about it?
We love coffee at my house! ☕️ So of course, Christopher Robin & I had a coffee-flavored wedding cake. The recipe my friend used (from Martha Stewart) is no longer available online, but here’s a similar recipe: Mocha Cake (shoutout to Mel's Bakery in Barbourville, KY) Coffee is a fitting illustration of marriage; because while black coffee is good (and even preferable to some people, as it was to me before getting pregnant with Roo) - most people would agree that perfect coffee requires a perfect blending of the black-coffee base with some combination of milk/creamer & sugar/sweetener, just like a perfect marriage requires a perfect blending of one man & one woman into a lifelong one-flesh union. “No longer two but one” (Mark 10:8). One Flesh Marriage (Nancy Cambell, Above Rubies)
My parents always said they were drawn to each other because they’re so different from each other and everyone knows that “Opposites Attract.” I did/do see that principle at work some in most of the marriage relationships I’ve witnessed. But Christopher Robin & I are so similar! What happened there?! Then according to the marriage book we’re reading for church this summer, God designs very different people to fall in love and get married. It’s supposed to be a big, beautiful tool of human sanctification … ie, His finishing redemptive work in both spouses’ hearts. So again, where do we fit in all this?! Well, I imagine part of the answer might lie in God granting my heart’s desire for a best-friend marriage. Part of it might be God’s mercy for my disability & anxiety issues. Maybe God knew we’d have plenty of outside craziness in our lives for His refining work, so He graciously allowed us one more comfortable relationship to rest in. Doubtless He had other reasons we don’t unde...
It’s not your fault when other people get angry, and it’s not your responsibility to fix their problems. Let it go & move on, at least as much as you can. See this helpful article: People's Meanness
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